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26.12.2012

The girls at WSFF keep telling me that I have to set myself goals if I'm going to do this right. Wikipedia tells me that my goals need to be S.M.A.R.T - specific, measurable, achievable, realistic and time-targeted. Sorry, have you nodded off? I'm going to need some help from people who know what they're talking about to be SMART. In the meantime, these are my random, jumpers for goal posts, thoughts. I want:

To be able to swim properly. I don't want to win any competitions or even to be particularly fast but I'd like to have a little style. I'm one of those women who never get their hair wet and get a stiff neck from swimming. Honestly, I should get myself one of those flowery swimming caps and have done with it. Swimming lessons for the terminally ungainly, that's what I need.

To be fit enough to join my local running group. Some friends go running in my local park. They're always urging me to come along and telling me even a klutz like me can do it. Now that I'm actually making noises about joining, we've had one of those "things only your best friends will tell you" conversations. Apparently I need to be able to do a full circuit of the park without dying first! I am on a promise of some walk a bit/jog a bit training sessions, to make up for all the lies!

To have enough lung power to join the choir. I know it's nothing to do with exercise, but I do love to sing. I'm no good or anything, but it is fun. A local Pop Choir meets once a week but I think I'm not even aerobically fit enough for that! Singing would be a great reward for all this horrible exercise I'm going to have to do.

To have more energy and to sleep better. Are these contradictory? I don't think so. I hate that four o'clock, reach for the biscuit tin, energy drain that comes from having done nothing much at all. And then, to add insult to injury, I can't get to sleep at night! The bad night's sleep leads to another lethargic day and round I go. Being a bit fitter (even just a bit) should help with that.

To lose a little weight without obsessing about food. I'm not really overweight but I'm at the top end of "healthy". Over the years, I've gained and lost the same twenty pounds over and over again. It would be easier to tie them in a sack and chuck them out of a speeding car somewhere on the M4, but I suspect they'd find their way home. I'm hoping that changing my relationship with exercise will change my relationship with food. I've wasted so much time sitting on my backside and finding ways to avoid "evil" foods. Food is not the enemy!

To find ways of fitting exercise into my everyday life. I hate gyms; they make me feel like a hamster on a wheel. My grandmother lived to a ripe old age and was as fit as flea – she never did a day’s exercise in her life. But her whole life was active! I'm not about to buy a mangle or a rug beater but I want to make activity a habit rather than a chore.

Last, but by no means least:

To make my children proud of me. When she knew I was going to be doing this, my daughter said, "Mummy, I'm so proud of you!" It was such a lovely feeling; now I have to live up to it! 

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  • Alison Tunley
    5 months ago
    Inspired by she moves, have set myself the goal of running 1000 miles this year. Eminently doable, yet easily failable. The perfect target!
  • Kate
    5 months ago
    Good luck Avril! Really love what you are doing. Even if the first few running/swimming/cycling sessions seem tough, you will find that every session gets easier and more enjoyable. I find that listening to music can help spur me on (or distract me) when running - Kanye West's "Stronger" is a particular favourite of mine! When you move I move :)
  • Sarah-Jane
    5 months ago
    I signed up for the BHF London to Brighton bike ride in 2008 I didn't have a bike and hadn't ridden one for a couple of decades. I'm sad to say my main motivation was because my partner told me I wouldn't be able to do it and I'd probably fall off and cry!!! (Yes I'm no longer with him!) With the help of a friend I bought a bike (if you need help bike buying search on line at cycling expert for female friendly bike shops) My first rides out were short, slow and shaky but as my confidence and fitness increased I was able to put in longer training rides. Needless to say I managed the ride and the only tears were tears of joy. The L2B really ignited a love of cycling; I started commuting to work,joined a cycling club and even time trialled. The cycling was put on hold when I fell pregnant with my daughter and I'm currently in the process of getting fit again and last year I set up my own bike hire business!